Etiquette
Here you will find important tidbits of information that will come in handy particularly before our first date! Arriving well prepared is the best way to make a charming first impression.
"Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity."
Verification
First things first…
I want to ensure that we are a good match, so if you are enticed to schedule a date after reviewing my bio, I invite you to introduce yourself by filling out my booking form.
All new friends must be successfully verified before we can meet!
Scheduling
Following verification, I will get in touch with you via your preferred method of contact.
On some occasions, I may request a 25% deposit. I accept cash app and/or gift cards delivered via email. Please do not send any deposit until I have provided you with specific instructions to do so. Cancelations within 72 hrs or less of scheduled date, the deposit is non-refundable. You may reschedule one time, but the deposit is now non-refundable regardless of length of notice should you need to cancel or reschedule again. If you would like to reschedule a second time, a new 25% deposit is due and is non-refundable. If you have ever canceled or rescheduled with me before, your deposit is always non-refundable regardless of length of notice. I am very reasonable and understand that life happens but I do ask that you prioritize our time together as I make great efforts to prepare for our date.
Communication
Once we have chosen a time and date and settled any deposits, I do ask that you keep communication confined to text or email. Conversations should be kept to a minimum and closely related to our date. I do not work with an assistant as I like to be in total control of my schedule. With this being said, I am often short of idle time to partake in small talk. I will reach out to you approximately 24 hrs before our scheduled date to confirm and iron out any remaining details, so please be on the look out for this message! I am a type A personality that has most hours of the coming week accounted for by Sunday night, so please don’t take any delayed replies to heart!
Explicit talk is completely unacceptable. I do not accept requests for photos, phone calls, FaceTime or discounts to my rates. Should you make me feel uncomfortable or disrespect my policies, I have the right to cancel our date as well as potentially forfeiting your deposit.
Location & Donation
As you may have already read, I have an incall in the northwest suburbs. I am also available to come to you. Outcall fee is $100 and in some instances I may require that the travel or parking costs are covered as well.
Upon your arrival, please excuse yourself to the bathroom and place the donation in cash on the bathroom counter. At this time you are also welcome and encouraged to freshen up and/or shower. I don’t recommend trying to save time by sparing a shower if you think you may need one; any unpleasant odors can be distracting when establishing connection.
If you have invited me to your location, please have the donation prepared on the bathroom counter before my arrival. I will excuse myself to freshen up.
If we are meeting in public, please place the donation in an unsealed blank envelope inside of a gift or shopping bag.
Main Event
Now that we have gotten off on the right foot, we can let our hair down!!
Extensions
If we are nearing the end of our date and we find that we don’t want our time together to end, I’d be pleased to extend my time with you if my schedule allows. In-date extensions are $700/hr. Please be prepared to handle the additional donation quickly and discreetly.
Courtesy
When spending extended time together (24hrs +), I do not require my own room but please be mindful that at least 6 hrs of uninterrupted sleep is essential for my well being as well as at least 2 hrs of personal time to get dolled up and tend to a few personal matters if necessary.
Fly Me To You Specifics
I would be delighted to hop on a plane and meet you in the city of your choice!
At this time, my schedule only allows for extended travel trips of at least 12 hrs.
New friends should provide at least two recent and reputable providers as references in addition to my standard screening procedure. I am not newbie friendly in the event of a FMTY.
Because an extended date requires a good deal planning and preparation, my cancellation/rescheduling policy slightly differs.
A 25% deposit is required at the the time of booking a FMTY as well as all travel expenses are due upfront (this includes airfare & estimated Uber fees). Should you need to cancel within one week of scheduled date, 50% of deposit is refunded. Cancelations within 72 hrs or less of scheduled date, the deposit is non-refundable. You may reschedule one time, but the deposit is non-refundable regardless of length of notice should you need to cancel or reschedule again. If you would like to reschedule a second time, a new 25% deposit is due and is non refundable. Travel fees are non-refundable whether canceling or rescheduling.
I appreciate business class or first class airfare & ground transportation within reason.